Posts Tagged ‘Career’

Frustration as a Warning Sign for Leaders

August 2nd, 2010

Frustration Should be a Warning Sign in Servant LeadershipYou know the feeling – that frustration when you can not convince a particular “blocker” to get on board. I’d been going back and forth in my head for weeks, trying to figure out how to get a message through to a particular blocker, so they would support the initiative. “Everyone else got it, why didn’t he?!” kept racing through my thoughts. Then it occurred to me: the problem was not his, it was mine. I had not been focused on serving them, but on my need to move the project forward.

The frustration was my big, red flag. I stopped to try and understand why I was frustrated. Was it really because they would not budge or was it because I was unable to move them? The latter was true. Was I frustrated because we could not meet the needs of the  broader organization or because he was blocking my ability to attain a personal goal? Again, the latter was true. As I dug through my frustration, » Read more: Frustration as a Warning Sign for Leaders

Passion vs. Emotion in Leadership

July 14th, 2010

I’ve seen passion get a bad rap too often by being mislabeled as “emotion”. You’ve probably experienced it too. It may be in a budget meeting when funding is being debated and someone passionately voices their opinion. Or, it may be during cross-functional staffing assessments when one leader vehemently disagrees with another’s reflection on a person.

Passion

Whenever it occurs, passion reflects an individual’s commitment, strong opinions and dedication to their position. In other words, passion may be described as a person’s unwillingness to maintain their composure. With a particularly strong belief in the matter at hand, passion is often the byproduct of someone deeply engaged in serving their organization. Therefore, I believe passion is a great characteristic to have in your team members. » Read more: Passion vs. Emotion in Leadership

Leadership as a Product Purhcased by Followers

June 29th, 2010

If your leadership were a business, would your employees be paying customers? The war for talent means your best employees ‘choice of employers is broadening. They have leadership options from which to buy and definitely conduct product comparisons. Whether it is the degree of late nights you ask of them, the extent of which “stuff” is allowed to roll down hill or amount of training received, your employees pay a price for your leadership product. Other leaders, either within your organization or elsewhere, offer different options at different price points. Therefore, leaders should ask themselves, “why do my employees pay for my leadership, why should they continue paying for it and how do I find more of the right customers for my leadership?” Based on this perspective of leadership as a product purchased by followers, below are three good practices I’ve seen for improving your leadership product.

Business man and woman fighting over cash1. Evaluate Competitor Products: Within your company and beyond, what are the most admired leaders offering as a part of their “product”? Look at the managers within your organization with the best 360 feedback scores. Also, look at some of the greatest leaders outside your company – those highlighted from Fortune’s Best Companies to Work For or similar studies. The leadership products offered from these competitors are ones you should consider adopting features from for your own leadership product offering.

2. Conduct a Market Study: When was the last time you conducted a survey of your team’s reflection on the quality of your leadership product? 360 Feedback is great, but consider going beyond the standard HR processes and policies. One of the greatest tools I’ve seen is an anonymous Q&A session. In this process, employees on the team submit their questions to a human resources representative. The HR representative filters the questions, rephrases them into their own words to ensure anonymity, then asks the leader these questions live, in an open dialog with the team. Why not conduct your own, similar, marketing study?

3. Invest in Research & Development: Over time, the best products evolve through investments in R&D. Your leadership product should be no different. To maintain the interest and support of your team, you should continuously improve your leadership skills. Invest time with mentors and perhaps even a professional coach. Devote time to personal development and reading the latest leadership books and industry periodicals. If you fail to evolve your leadership product over time, your competitors will become more attractive while your product remains stagnant.

Your leadership is a product purchased by your followers. The team invests time, effort and creativity into your organization, at least in part due to your leadership. Therefore, as you serve the organization, it’s employees, customers, investors and other stake holders, you owe it to them to develop your leadership product. Failure to continuously develop this product could be more costly than failures in your organization’s end product and services.

Questions: What other ways do you invest in your leadership Product? How does your leadership develop their product?

Servant Leadership Lesson: John C. Maxwell at Chick-Fil-A Leadercast

June 9th, 2010

John C. MaxwellNote: This post is the fifth in a series of Servant Leadership Lessons from the Chick-Fil-A Leadercast 2010.

John Maxwell has an amazing ability to connect with you – whether you are one member of an audience of 65,000+ (as we were this day) or one-on-one. This is appropriate, given that his latest book is entitled, “Everyone Communicates, Few Connect.” This was the main topic of his presentation – Connecting with Others. The best leaders serve their organizations in many ways, but one critical attribute is through their ability to connect. Highlights of Maxwell’s comments on serving and connecting follow:

  • “Leadership is influence. Nothing more, nothing less.”
  • Definition of “Connecting: the ability to identify with and relate to people in such a way that it increases our ability to influence them.”
  • “Some of my best thinking is done by others.”

It’s Not About Us

Servant Leadership Lesson: Mark Sanborn at Chick-Fil-A Leadercast

June 3rd, 2010

Mark Sanborn

Note: This post is the fourth in a series of Servant Leadership Lessons from the Chick-Fil-A Leadercast 2010

Mark Sanborn had many great phrases and memorable leadership quotes. In fact, Mark’s website includes the subheading, “Leadership doesn’t make a difference, it is the difference.” How true that is, at every level of the organization. His presentation focused on leaders as story builders, improvers and tellers. Below are highlights from Mark’s presentation:

Making a Better Story

  • “Leaders don’t just tell a better story, they make the story better.”
  • “We want leaders who can help us make our stories better than they would have been.”
  • “…Consider your life (to be) a non-fiction book on the shelf of the bookstore of the world.”
  • “Are you a better person because of your manager?”
    • The above is a question Sanborn asks employees of managers confidentially
    • Are you treating your employees like a WIP or WAC?
      • WIP= Work In Progress – how we often view ourselves
      • WAC=Works Already Completed – how we often look at others.
        • “Why do we treat them (those we meet) as foregone conclusions rather than a future possibility?”
        • “…it’s called Leadership not Controllership”
        • “The antidote to ‘stuck’ is hope.”
        • “You, as a leader, might have to resell people on their own value… You might have to renarrate their story…You might have misinterpreted your own story”
  • “Reenergize people by giving them hope… Hope is having something new try and be willing to try.
      • A future that is different than the one they currently occupy
      • “Refocus people from current struggles to future hopes.”
  • “Redefine Failure”
    • “Failure is something that happens to you, not something you are…Failures are indicators you are making progress”
    • “Your resume is current until the day you retire. Your legacy will live beyond you.”
    • “We as leaders need to pay attention to how our stories are affecting others.”

C.R.A.F.T. Model

  • Catch
    • Catch the other person’s story
    • Requires slowing down, make space to catch the other person’s story
  • Respond
    • Don’t reject the story
    • People have no reason to change until we accept them
  • Ask
    • Ask questions
    • What is your greatest hope here (at organization / business)?
  • Feel
    • Listen with your heart.
    • A cynic is a passionate person that doesn’t want to be disappointed with you.
  • Tell
    • Tell your Story
    • That’s where you find the connectivity
    • The focus is not on you or what you learned – but on how they can be better (their story can be better) because of what you learned in your story

I am grateful to Mark for his participation in the Chick-Fil-A Leadercast and especially enjoyed his CRAFT model. I see great alignment here with servant leadership principles.

More From Mark Sanborn

Website: http://www.marksanborn.com/
Latest Book: The Fred Factor
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Servant Leadership Lesson: Tony Dungy At Chick-Fil-A Leadercast

June 1st, 2010

Tony Dungy - An Example of Servant Leadership

Note: This post is the third in a series of Servant Leadership Lessons from the Chick-Fil-A Leadercast 2010.

Mark Sanborn interviewed Tony Dungy in a pre-recorded meeting. Dungy’s story and success in both the NFL and life read like a case-study in Servant Leadership. If you’ve not read them, I highly suggest his books, particularly the first, “Quiet Strength”. Below are some of the highlights from Tony Dungy’s Chick-Fil-A Leadercast interview:

  • Q: How do we get people “unstuck”?
    • “Energize them…Show them the potential they have… what they are truly capable of.”
  • Q: How do you get others committed to your vision and mission?
    • You need to explain, “It’s about more than us, the big picture, the whole team, the whole community… Even more than teamwork, the ultimate goal that all of us can strive for. That’s what you have to sell.”
  • Q: What if they’re struggling before they see progress?
    • “You have to talk about perseverance…Show the examples that may not be obvious. Explain that this is not the time to give up, we’re close… Let them know we’re in it together.”
  • Q: You have a Mentor-Leader book coming out in August, can you tell us a bit about it?
    • “The Mentor-leader helps people get where they want to be” (vs. pushing them).
  • Q: You have a very different coaching style than the stereotype in the NFL, can you explain why / how?
    • You must “be yourself, you have to lead in your own way, don’t imitate others”
  • Q: You’ve flagged players in the NFL as “DNDC” – What does that mean?
    • “Do Not Draft Because of Character…”
    • They had the talent, but something in their makeup would not make them a good addition to the group or team
  • Q: Do you think Character is taught or caught?
    • A little of both
    • You need to take people w/ potential and build those character traits in
  • Q: How do you avoid the “big head” syndrome after success?
    • His mother taught him “it’s important to understand where your success comes from, and it comes from the Lord.”
    • He also referenced a poem from John Wooden, given to him by Dungy’s High School coach:

Talent is God Given; be thankful

Praise is man given; be humble

Conceit is self-given; be careful

  • Q: Sometimes you must mentor and sometimes discipline as a coach, how do you handle this?
    • “All coaching is mentoring and disciplining is part of it”
  • Q: How do you ration your time and energy?
    • That’s always the dilemma for him
    • “You want to be the best at what you’re doing…people at work are depending on you…people at home are depending on you… Family has to come first – that’s who’s going to be with you the rest of your life.”
  • Q: Any other thoughts you’d like to leave with the audience?
    • “God’s put you where you are for a reason. You are impacting a lot of people, whether you know it or not.”
    • “The biggest thing you’ve gotta have is perseverance”
    • “You can make an impact today, right where you are.”
    • Look inside you, figure out what you can do and you can be the one.”

Again, I highly recommend Dungy’s books as they are packed with Servant-Leadership material. It sounds like his forthcoming book this Summer, The Mentor Leader, will continue down this path. My gratitude to Tony for his continued support and promotion of servant leadership principles.

More From Tony Dungy

Website: http://www.coachdungy.com/
Latest Book: The Mentor-Leader (08.03.2010)

Mark Sanborn interviewed Tony Dungy in a pre-recorded meeting. Dungy’s story and success in both the NFL and life read like a case-study in Servant Leadership. If you’ve not read them, I highly suggest his books, particularly the first,

Servant Leadership Lesson: Connie Podesta at Chick-Fil-A Leadercast

May 18th, 2010

Note: This post is the first in a series of Servant Leadership Lessons from the Chick-Fil-A Leadercast 2010.

At the Chick-Fil-A Leadercast, Connie Podesta focused on connecting our personal and professional lives. She also covered a range of topics including some humor (and interesting facts) surrounding the common differences between male and female communication styles. However, the servant leadership themes I took away from Connie included: leaders should align work and personal lives and they must remember that everyone is always leading by example (my words, not hers). As leaders serving your organization, aligning your personal lives with work lives and not attempting to balance the two, is something I wrote about here. It’s also critical for the serving leader to remember they are always on stage – setting the example for others, as their teams are for peers. Below are some highlights from her talk, aligned to these themes:

Work / Life Alignment, Not Balance

  • “There is no separating your personal and professional life”
  • Leadership is a 24×7 job
  • When consulting, clients often suggest there is not enough time to address the employee’s personal lives and interests, but she finds that is the most important part and necessary.
  • “When it comes to material possessions we need to focus more on what we need and not so much on what we want.”
  • If you think you need your job, you’ll never be happy at work.

Everyone Is Always Leading, By Example

  • You’re on stage every single day of your life
  • Your kids, clients, family, employees, church congregation, etc. are all in the audience – they are watching you and trying to decide how you are going to influence them
  • “There’s not a human being in your life you can make happy”
  • Leadership has changed from 20 years ago, employees and children have not.
    • Employees and children have always looked to leaders and parents, taking their cues for how to behave from them
    • “Character is defined not by how you are when life is going good… Leadership comes out when your life is so far from what you had planned, that you can barely breathe.”

Before leaving, she asked the audience if they are happy with the personal choices they’ve made. Then, are they happy with the professional choices they’ve made. She let it hang there, before exiting.

More From Connie Podesta

Website: http://www.conniepodesta.com/
Latest Book: How to Be the Person Successful Companies Fight to Keep
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Servant Leadership Panel at Hope College

April 13th, 2010
Hope College Anchor

The Hope College Anchor

Last night, I was honored to participate in a panel on Servant Leadership at Hope College’s Center for Faithful Leadership.  The panel was part of the college’s mentoring program. Below are the questions we covered and my responses (including more content than covered in the session) :

1. What does Servant Leadership mean to you?

For me, Servant Leadership is the only real form of leadership.  After all, if you’re not serving others, you are not leading.  If your primary ambition is self-motivated for personal success, fame and fortune and not for a greater cause, then all you’re really doing is pursuing vain ambitions.

In contrast to the self-serving individual, servant leaders seek to help others become something greater.  They put all stakeholders before themselves in some degree.  Some people think servant leadership means only serving your employees, the poor or any singular constituency, but it’s really about understanding the needs of the broader organization.  So, in business for example, this means yes, serving your employees, but it also means serving your customers, supervisors and investors. » Read more: Servant Leadership Panel at Hope College

Pause to Reflect on What’s Important

April 12th, 2010

Two Deer in the WoodsMy wife and I both had to be in the office early. We’d gotten our 20 month old son ready for daycare, but were running late and feeling the pressure. Tension was thick, fuses were short and it was a poor way to start the day.

As I rushed outside in the still dark morning, a shuffling of leaves by the door made me pause. I stopped to let my eyes adjust and found myself practically within arms reach of two beautiful deer. One was bracing to sprint, but the other seemed calm and curious. Impressed by the pleasant surprise, I took in the moment. Then, backing away slowly, I loaded the car. In the small magic of that moment, my new friends reminded me to focus on what was important. Had I been “on time” I would have missed that special experience. I then realized I needed to make the time to serve my family by helping them start their day right.  I also needed to serve my colleagues by ensuring my mind was focused on the right topics and preparation for our meeting on my drive in. » Read more: Pause to Reflect on What’s Important

Ask The Right Questions

April 2nd, 2010
Asking the Right Questions

Ask the Right Questions at the Right Time

Great leaders ask the right questions at the right time. While great leaders are better at this than others, there is no magic to asking the right questions. By focusing on serving the organization, one can position themselves to identify the right questions at the right time. Below are some tactics that may help you serve the organization and ask the right questions:

1. Active Listening
It all begins with listening first. The meeting multitasker often misses key concepts and asks the dumb question. The person that actively listens, repeating back what they hear to ensure comprehension, is best positioned to ask the right questions. » Read more: Ask The Right Questions