Certainly, formal structure, especially in large organizations, is necessary. You could not run a Fortune 500 company or a country with frequently rotating leadership. However, in a given situation, the leader by title, may not be the person best suited to lead. Instead, as servants to their stakeholders, leaders should identify and support the individual best suited to drive results in each situation. Yet, how often do we, as leaders, fall short of this opportunity? We have tendencies to:
1. Micro-Manage: In an attempt to display control or exert influence, titled leaders often direct details that are better handled by those closest to the environment.
2. Challenge: Titled leaders frequently challenge or second-guess the decisions of their team. This is particularly common when we are in the presence of the titled leader’s peer group and they feel threatened or lack confidence.
3. Politic: Whether for personal benefit or believing to have the best interests of the team at heart, titled leaders may make trade-offs with their peers. We sometimes think the team members closest to the solution don’t understand how things “really work”.
When we practice these tactics, we fail to support the right person as first among equals. As a result, we fail to optimize our own team, results and leadership. In short, we are not serving the organization first. So the next time you are tempted to micro-manage, challenge or politic, stop. Identify who is Primus-Inter-Pares and empower them? Who is First Among Equals in the situation and therefore, best suited to lead, for the moment? Serve your organization by supporting the first among equals.
Question: How do you ensure the right decisions are being made by the right people in your organization?
2 thoughts on “Primus Inter Pares or First Among Equals”
I try to establish boundaries instead of hard and fast rules. We then discuss issues which occur and decide if the boundaries are too restrictive or wrong decision made. Once we gel, the decision making process becomes easier.
I like that – "Once we gel, the decision making process becomes easier." How true! Your approach with boundaries sounds excellent. Thank you for sharing.